kinky keyword glossary
anal
games with this tag will include some type of anal sex, which might include butt plugs, rimming, or other penetrative play
bondage
these games will involve some type of restraint! that may include rope, chain, cuffs, harnesses, and psychological bondage (ie, orders to stay still or hold a position)
breath play
here, anything tagged breath play includes any kind of mindful or controlled breathing, including for example circular breathing, as well as choking.
bullying
consensual bullying is generally behavior along the theme of making things harder for one partner with good-spirited, playful meanness. this kind of play should be well negotiated to lean into exciting overwhelming feelings like vulnerability, exposure, and embarrassment, but we want to be careful to avoid causing actual harm.
CBT
okay, so typically out there in the world, CBT refers to cock and ball torture (at least in a kinky context!), but here it means "covered bits torture," referring to the torment of genitals of any gender! keep in mind that torture can indicate sadistic pain play, but it can also involve edging, orgasm denial, or other torturous scenarios that aren't inherently painful per se.
corporal punishment
these games involve some kind of pain play, usually but not always based around hitting with or without an implement. spanking and flogging would be included here, as would other pain or endurance tasks such as kneeling on rice or figging.
feet
you guessed it, these games involve feet
food control
posts tagged as food control specifically include controlling what a partner eats and doesn't eat for a scene, a day, or more, compared to posts tagged food play which simply involve food as an element.
food play
posts tagged as food play simply involve food, beverages, eating or drinking as an element, compared to food control which specifically implies the creation of dietary restrictions or specifications.
piss
fairly self explanatory! these games will involve peeing, potentially including peeing on or in a body!
religious themes
these games involve some element of religious (or pseudo-religious) role play, imagery, props, or language. they're usually going to be inspired by catholocism because that's my background!
role play
these bdsm games ask you to put a hat on beyond dom or sub! not literally - role play games might involve a specific character (eg, Betty Boop), occupational role (eg, Doctor), or archetype (eg, supervillain)
sensory play
here, sensory play involves manipulating sensations, so it may include both sensory deprivation (think blindfolds, or noise cancelling headphones), or sensory overload (edging, wax, figging, electro play, wartenberg wheels)
sensual
sensual games have a romantic element. they tend to move at a slower pace and involve focused attention as well as pleasurable touch.
spit
these games involve spit! spitting on, at, in, or around your partner are all possibilities!
wax play
wax play here usually refers to either sensual or sadistic candle wax play!
whimsical
these games invoke laughter - laughter belongs in life at every possible opportunity, and this absolutely includes bdsm.